Christians, it is time to live life, love yourself and be happy.  You know often times we as Christians hold on far too long.  Whether it be holding on to lopsided friendships or holding on to unrequited love, we need to know when to let go.  Believe it or not, there is joy in letting go.  There is also peace in letting go.  I have experienced healing in letting go.  My experience in letting go of the things and people that do not want to be a part of my life has actually been cathartic.

Once you can acknowledge that a relationship is bringing no added value to your life and is instead detracting from it, you can then begin your process of letting go.  It may not be easy for you to face the facts of the relationship but it is necessary.  You know in Philippians 3:13-14 it states: “Brothers, I do not consider myself to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus”, or as Job 17:9 states: “The righteous shall move onward and forward; those with pure hearts shall become stronger and stronger.”

So you see, letting go positions you to move forward and grow stronger.  It is crucial for your happiness and joy.  So I admonish you to let go of those people and things with enthusiasm because there is JOY on the other side of this process.  Live, love and enjoy life with enthusiasm because you deserve it.

“Will you be mine?”

This is the big question that on the 14th day of February seems to ring in everyone’s ears all day long. But what if there is no suitor to put a suit on or a bachelorette to put in a dress?

Ladies, don’t find yourself looking for roMANce. Gentlemen, every kiss may begin with “K” but it’s “OK” if you don’t have a lady to put a ring on it!

Don’t worry, instead be happy! The Lord has already given so you can have love everlasting.

“God loved the world this way: He gave his only Son so that everyone who believes in him will not die but will have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

It was because of love in the beginning that God caused the existence of your very being. He asks will you be His, every day, so let your song change from Will you be mine to Yes I will be yours!

For the married and happy or content and satisfied who have found that love that had you at hello, make sure you never can say goodbye. The gift of love is given over and over again. Keep unwrapping it!